Question for the crowd about women in short skirts
I've been swamped with work and school and life, sorry I haven't had time to post lately, I haven't even had time to go out for more than an hour a night, and usually that's to sip a club soda and go home to do more work.
So - here's a question for you, originally written in 2004.
When women go out to clubs and bars dressed in tube tops the width of a cigarette pack, are they:
A) Looking to get some action
B) Flaunting what they've got to tease men
C) Just dressing that way because they think they look good
D) Other
Question two:
Men - when you see a woman out in a club or bar dressed in a tube top the width of a cigarette pack, do you assume that they are:
A) Looking to get some action
B) Flaunting what they've got to tease you
C) Just dressing that way because they think they look good
D) Other
Kelcey wrote, in response to the original -
As a female, I would love to hear the answers, from both sides, to this question! I know for me it varies- if I'm in very good shape (yes, you can bounce quarters off my stomach at times) and I feel like it, then sometimes I'm dressed that way because I damn well feel like it and feel like flaunting it a bit. Sometimes it's because I'm looking for some action, but usually it's because that's what I felt like wearing. . . Did you put the responses, or some of them, to your question up somewhere?While I did get responses back then, they were lost in the great hard drive crash of '05. Have at it.
Comments
There's a total disconnect between what I'd like to believe and the reality of the situation. I like to believe that women go out dressed like that cause they wanna laid, but in reality I think they do it to tease guys like me. Bitches ;-)
Posted by: Rob | September 23, 2007 1:35 AM
Why is the title about skirts and the question about tops?
Anyway, my answer is C), plus B) and A) depending on circumstances. I think C) is a given, but it's quite likely she has A) in her head as a possibility, should she meet someone who rocks her boat. If that doesn't happen, she'll console herself with B).
So my advice is: admire the beauty and sexiness, but make no assumptions, and you may end up getting some.
Posted by: Z | September 23, 2007 2:09 AM
I think that girls who dress like this really think they look good. And, well, they do. In that skanky "look what I have' kinda way...
Posted by: Jane | September 23, 2007 7:18 AM
I tend to think as I get older, that less is more. I mean, showing less is actually sexier. Of course, as an older woman, this also works out well for me. But I do find that men tend to dismiss the girls in the tube tops for anything other than a sexual partner.
Posted by: trouble | September 24, 2007 11:17 AM